“I
got out for a ride early this morning, I thought I would beat the wind and get
my 30 miles in early so I could focus on all the items I need to address this
weekend. I am down to less than a month before my departure to head to Seattle , WA .
I
went outside to check the temperature, it was cool, almost to the point of
being a little cold, so I put on a “T” shirt under my long sleeve white shirt,
which makes me as visible as I can be.
I got a slow warm-up done on the first 5
miles and as I went past the ball field it was still empty, too early just yet.
It was quiet and the sweet smell of freshly mowed lawn still lingered in the
air. As I climbed the first hill I down shifted and pushed, it was quiet, just
the sounds of me inhaling and exhaling, as I climbed the hill. Once at the top
I heard the sounds of a dog barking as I peddled by, and a car whooshed by, one
of only a few this early in the morning, a few pick-up trucks pulling horse
trailers off to some event. As the road leveled off I saw a Sheriff's vehicle
parked on the same side of the road as I was, so I pulled over to say hello. I
have been doing this more frequently since I have been training for this trip
and have noticed a trend. The first thing they say to me is “Can I help you?” I
have been giving it a lot of thought lately, Can…I...Help...You…? When I am asked that question, they
have no idea why I am stopping but they are ready to render me help, a total
stranger, they do not know my background, financial status, anything about me
yet they are ready to help me if I just ask them. What a great question, Thank
You for asking me!
But,
since I have been doing this more frequently, I have an answer that surprises
them. My answer to them is “No,
I am here to help you” which
I say with a smile; now they are a little confused, how is he going to help me.
Then I say, “Thank You,
Thank you for all that you do”. At this point he is beginning to think
this guy might need some
help; who stops by a police office just to say Thank You, (well they don't know
me vewy well do they), I do.
We
have forgotten how to say “Thank You”, really say it and mean it. Not some
cursory, as you run by, thank you, but a real, sincere, honest, “Thank You”.
Look them in and eye, and in all honesty say it like you mean it “Thank You”.
Trust me, they will know if you mean it or not. It will come across in your
eyes, expression, the tone in your voice, and your smile. Over the next few
minutes we talked about what I was doing like we were friends, and I asked him
if he would spread the word of what I was doing and I asked him to let others
know that I would be looking for tokens, patches, coins or whatever they would
like to give to me that I could share with other law enforcement offices across
the country; knowing that other officers across the country are thinking of
them, that they are united together in a job, and that they understand what he
or she is enduring every day.
He
said, “Wait a second, I have something right here, I don't have a coin but do
you want this”, I said sure and he handed me a key fob which had the logo of
the Sheriff's department on it.
I thanked him and wanted him to know that I
would share it with another office that I will meet somewhere in
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